{"id":43258,"date":"2022-12-18T06:28:18","date_gmt":"2022-12-18T12:28:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/losperiodistas.com.mx\/portal\/?p=43258"},"modified":"2022-12-18T06:28:20","modified_gmt":"2022-12-18T12:28:20","slug":"lacostillarota-deconstruir-el-amor-romantico-parte-ii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/losperiodistas.com.mx\/portal\/lacostillarota-deconstruir-el-amor-romantico-parte-ii\/","title":{"rendered":"#LaCostillaRota | Deconstruir el amor rom\u00e1ntico Parte II"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"has-white-color has-vivid-purple-background-color has-text-color has-background has-medium-font-size wp-block-heading\">Tengamos en cuenta que las relaciones interpersonales, las normalizamos como relaciones de poder, donde una de esas personas, ejerce poder y hasta coerci\u00f3n para someter a la otra persona<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-default\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-full is-resized\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/losperiodistas.com.mx\/portal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Diseno-sin-titulo-64-1.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-43259\" width=\"463\" height=\"388\" srcset=\"https:\/\/losperiodistas.com.mx\/portal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Diseno-sin-titulo-64-1.jpeg 940w, https:\/\/losperiodistas.com.mx\/portal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Diseno-sin-titulo-64-1-300x251.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/losperiodistas.com.mx\/portal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Diseno-sin-titulo-64-1-768x644.jpeg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 463px) 100vw, 463px\" \/><figcaption>ABC<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-vivid-cyan-blue-color has-text-color has-medium-font-size\">R. AIDE\u00c9 AGUILAR ESQUIVEL \/ LA COSTILLA ROTA<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Otra forma de deconstruir el amor rom\u00e1ntico es comprender cu\u00e1les son las formas de relacionarnos que nos han ense\u00f1ado. Anteriormente lo vimos a trav\u00e9s de los celos; hoy lo abordaremos desde el control, que va de la mano con lo anterior.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tengamos en cuenta que las relaciones interpersonales, las normalizamos como relaciones de poder, donde una de esas personas, ejerce poder y hasta coerci\u00f3n para someter a la otra persona.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pensemos que en una relaci\u00f3n heterosexual, hombre-mujer, debemos cuestionar c\u00f3mo nos han dicho que deben de ser estar forma relacionales patriarcales. Nos ense\u00f1an que las mujeres debemos de aceptar el rol de la mujer sumisa, la que obedece al hombre y le sirve en todo momento, ante cualquier situaci\u00f3n. Pero esto tambi\u00e9n, lo vemos en otras parejas con diferentes preferencias u orientaciones sexuales.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Son comportamientos que hemos normalizado y que aprobamos. Incluso, hasta con ello nos atrevemos a medir o poner par\u00e1metros con los cuales determinamos si una relaci\u00f3n es buena o no. Muchas personas les dices a sus parejas que \u00ablas controlan porque las aman\u00bb, pero en realidad las relaciones interpersonales tanto rom\u00e1nticas o no, debe ser construidas desde la confianza, por supuesto, no una confianza ciega, sino una que se genere a trav\u00e9s de palabras acompa\u00f1adas de actos, de congruencia y respeto.<br>En ocasiones, las parejas \u00abjustifican\u00bb el control hacia la otra persona, como una forma de cuidado y preocupaci\u00f3n, que se vuelve obsesiva, al grado de querer determina c\u00f3mo debe o no actuar la otra persona. Todo esto lleva al grado que hacen que las personas pierdan individualidad. Nos insertan la idea que son uno mismo. Uno desproporcionado porque al final una de las dos personas termina sometiendo a la otra.<br>Por ello, es de suma importancia que rompamos con estas actitudes que provocan que nos relacionemos de manera violenta y, ademas, que creamos que eso est\u00e1 bien.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Foto de https:\/\/abcblogs.abc.es\/gema-lendoiro\/2014\/12\/11\/vuelve-el-ama-de-casa?ref=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com%2F<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fuente: https:\/\/lacostillarota.com\/2022\/12\/16\/deconstruir-el-amor-romantico-parte-ii\/<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tengamos en cuenta que las relaciones interpersonales, las normalizamos como relaciones de poder, donde una de esas personas, ejerce poder 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