{"id":117610,"date":"2026-03-01T08:25:37","date_gmt":"2026-03-01T14:25:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/losperiodistas.com.mx\/portal\/?p=117610"},"modified":"2026-03-01T08:25:39","modified_gmt":"2026-03-01T14:25:39","slug":"javier-urra-psicologo-yo-no-le-contaria-todo-a-mi-pareja-y-llevo-47-anos-con-ella-acyv","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/losperiodistas.com.mx\/portal\/javier-urra-psicologo-yo-no-le-contaria-todo-a-mi-pareja-y-llevo-47-anos-con-ella-acyv\/","title":{"rendered":"Javier Urra, psic\u00f3logo: \u00abYo no le contar\u00eda todo a mi pareja y llevo 47 a\u00f1os con ella\u00bb | ACyV"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">En una \u00e9poca en la que las relaciones de pareja duraderas parecen cada vez menos frecuentes, el especialista ha sorprendido al afirmar que la transparencia absoluta no siempre es la mejor opci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/losperiodistas.com.mx\/portal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/f.elconfidencial.com_original_fb9_54b_275_fb954b2759af5ef0a7e4784e0f69089a-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-117611\" srcset=\"https:\/\/losperiodistas.com.mx\/portal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/f.elconfidencial.com_original_fb9_54b_275_fb954b2759af5ef0a7e4784e0f69089a-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/losperiodistas.com.mx\/portal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/f.elconfidencial.com_original_fb9_54b_275_fb954b2759af5ef0a7e4784e0f69089a-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/losperiodistas.com.mx\/portal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/f.elconfidencial.com_original_fb9_54b_275_fb954b2759af5ef0a7e4784e0f69089a-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/losperiodistas.com.mx\/portal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/f.elconfidencial.com_original_fb9_54b_275_fb954b2759af5ef0a7e4784e0f69089a.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Javier Urra, especialista en Psicolog\u00eda Cl\u00ednica, pedagogo terapeuta y una de las voces m\u00e1s reconocidas del \u00e1mbito de la psicolog\u00eda en Espa\u00f1a. (P\u00f3dcast Vidas Contadas)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-vivid-red-color has-text-color has-link-color has-medium-font-size wp-elements-c77ba5cf2e2658660080fa40b0ca7d66\"><strong>ACyV \/ EC<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>En una \u00e9poca en la que las<a href=\"https:\/\/www.elconfidencial.com\/alma-corazon-vida\/2025-10-17\/andrea-vicente-psicologa-claves-relacion-duradera-autorregulacion-corregulacion-1qrt_4229548\/\">&nbsp;relaciones de pareja duraderas<\/a>&nbsp;parecen cada vez menos frecuentes,&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.elconfidencial.com\/alma-corazon-vida\/2025-09-28\/javier-urra-psicologo-jovenes-emancipan-treinta_4217773\/\">Javier Urra<\/a>,&nbsp;<\/strong>especialista en Psicolog\u00eda Cl\u00ednica, pedagogo terapeuta y una de las voces m\u00e1s reconocidas del \u00e1mbito de la psicolog\u00eda en Espa\u00f1a, ha sorprendido al afirmar que la transparencia absoluta no siempre es la mejor opci\u00f3n. \u201cYo no le contar\u00eda todo a mi pareja y llevo 47 a\u00f1os con Araceli\u201d, asegur\u00f3 durante su intervenci\u00f3n en el p\u00f3dcast&nbsp;<em>Vidas Contadas<\/em>, donde reflexion\u00f3 sobre compromiso, dependencia y gesti\u00f3n emocional.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>El que fue psic\u00f3logo forense en la Fiscal\u00eda del Tribunal Superior de Justicia lanz\u00f3 una pregunta a los espectadores: \u201c\u00bfLo cuentas todo a tu pareja? Es una pregunta que hay que hacerse\u201d. A partir de ah\u00ed expuso su postura: \u201cYo no le contar\u00eda todo a mi pareja, llevo 47 a\u00f1os con Araceli. \u00bfPero de qu\u00e9 le voy a contar todo?\u00a0<strong>\u00bfY qu\u00e9 no debemos contar? Pues todo aquello que pueda generar un dolor que no tenga sentido<\/strong>\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Urra plante\u00f3 ejemplos concretos para ilustrar su argumento. \u00ab<strong>Contar lo que yo haya hecho antes de conocer a una persona<\/strong>, puede tener celos y adem\u00e1s ya no puede competir con esa persona\u00bb. Tambi\u00e9n a\u00f1adi\u00f3 otra situaci\u00f3n: \u00abPiensa que tu padre se est\u00e1 muriendo, \u00bfa qu\u00e9 viene decirle &#8216;te acuerdas cuando ten\u00eda 15 a\u00f1os que un d\u00eda me hiciste tal y me disgust\u00f3 de una manera&#8217;? \u00bfViene a cuento? \u00bfVa a cambiar algo la relaci\u00f3n? Se est\u00e1 muriendo. C\u00e1llate.&nbsp;<strong>Porque ser valiente es<a href=\"https:\/\/www.elconfidencial.com\/alma-corazon-vida\/2025-06-27\/marta-barranco-psicologa-lo-que-te-molesta-pareja-supera-nivel-5-diselo-1qrt_4161149\/\">&nbsp;decir las cosas a veces y callarlas otras<\/a>\u00ab<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Su planteamiento no defiende el enga\u00f1o, sino la prudencia emocional y la utilidad de lo que se comparte. Para el psic\u00f3logo, no todo lo que se siente o se recuerda aporta valor a la relaci\u00f3n si solo genera sufrimiento innecesario.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-tiktok wp-block-embed-tiktok\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@vidascontadas.podcast\/video\/7605649446206049558\" data-video-id=\"7605649446206049558\" data-embed-from=\"oembed\" style=\"max-width:605px; min-width:325px;\"> <section> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"@vidascontadas.podcast\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@vidascontadas.podcast?refer=embed\">@vidascontadas.podcast<\/a> <p>\u00bfLe cuentas todo a tu pareja? \ud83d\udd34 Link en bio al episodio completo con Javier Urra.<\/p> <a target=\"_blank\" title=\"\u266c sonido original - Vidas Contadas - Vidas Contadas\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/sonido-original-Vidas-Contadas-7605649458667948822?refer=embed\">\u266c sonido original &#8211; Vidas Contadas &#8211; Vidas Contadas<\/a> <\/section> <\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>El especialista tambi\u00e9n abord\u00f3 la idea del&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.elconfidencial.com\/alma-corazon-vida\/2025-01-05\/consejos-psiquiatra-enrique-rojas-relacion-pareja-duradera-1qrt_4036500\/\">compromiso en tiempos de v\u00ednculos m\u00e1s fr\u00e1giles<\/a>. \u00abMe uno sentimentalmente con mi pareja mientras dure. Si empiezas con mientras dure, no alcanzas los 47 a\u00f1os que llevo yo con Araceli. Mientras dure no, porque luego conoces otras cosas, otras personas, otros momentos\u00bb. Urra diferenci\u00f3 etapas dentro de la vida en com\u00fan: \u00abNo pasas del amor-pasi\u00f3n al amor-ternura, a hablar de los nietos. Entonces&nbsp;<strong>uno tiene que tener compromisos, f\u00f3rmulas, liturgias\u00bb<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fuente: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.elconfidencial.com\/alma-corazon-vida\/2026-03-01\/javier-urra-psicologo-yo-no-contaria-todo-mi-pareja-llevo-47-anos-con-ella-1qrt_4308115\/\">https:\/\/www.elconfidencial.com\/alma-corazon-vida\/2026-03-01\/javier-urra-psicologo-yo-no-contaria-todo-mi-pareja-llevo-47-anos-con-ella-1qrt_4308115\/<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>En una \u00e9poca en la que las relaciones de pareja duraderas parecen cada vez menos frecuentes, el especialista ha sorprendido 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